Growing up in the 80s in new jersey and the things we used to do

Growing up in New Jersey in the 1980s was different than it is for kids today. Times have changed, but some aspects from the ’80s era remain. Gone are various ’80s fads like parachute pants and Cabbage Patch Kids, but social norms from that period would now stir controversy.

Here are just a few things that we did, had done to us, or were just a thing in the 1980s.

7-Digit Phone Numbers

In the ’80s, local calls required only a 7-digit number. You memorized your friends’ numbers or kept them in a “little black book.” Now, area codes are necessary for all calls, but smart phones make it easier.

Riding in the Back of a Pickup Truck

In the ’80s, it was common to ride in the back of a pickup on highways and local roads. Now, doing so can lead to fines and license points, except in states without laws against it.

Supermarket Black Lists

Supermarkets used to publicly list individuals who wrote bad checks. Today, such practices would be considered public shaming and are not widely acceptable.

Knocking on Doors for Phone Use

Before cell phones, if you needed to make an emergency call, you could knock on a stranger’s door to ask to use their phone.

Kids Buying Cigarettes

Parents could send their kids to buy cigarettes from stores or vending machines. ID checks are now the norm.

Smoking and Drinking at School and Work

Smoking was permitted in offices and schools, including teacher lounges. Today, designated smoking areas are the norm, and indoor smoking is largely banned.

Spontaneous Visits

Children used to spontaneously visit friends’ homes to hang out or play, without planned “playdates.”

Outdoor Play Until Dusk

Parents would let their children play outside until the street lights came on, calling them back only for dinner.

Politically Incorrect Halloween Costumes

In the ’80s, Halloween costumes often pushed social boundaries. Wearing such costumes today could lead to serious repercussions.

Hitchhiking

Hitchhiking was a common travel method, especially in rural areas. Rising safety concerns and media portrayals have made both riders and drivers more wary.

Public Spanking

Spanking children in public was commonplace and socially accepted. Now, public opinion has shifted, and such actions may prompt legal consequences.

In summary, the ’80s had a unique set of norms and practices that differ from today’s landscape. These changes provide context for understanding generational differences.

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